You Don't Have to Navigate Pet Loss Alone
The bond we share with our pets can be incredibly meaningful, which is why losing them can bring such a profound sense of grief. Every person's experience is different, and there is no right or wrong way to mourn a beloved companion.
Be patient with yourself as you move through the grieving process. Whether you find comfort in quiet reflection, sharing memories with loved ones, or seeking additional support, taking care of yourself is an important part of healing.
Give yourself the time and space you need, and remember that you don't have to work through these feelings alone.
Support When You Need It
Talking with someone who understands pet loss can provide comfort and connection during a difficult time. Individual counselling, support groups, online communities, and pet-loss hotlines can offer a safe space to talk about your companion, share memories, or simply have someone listen.
Resources to Help You Through Pet Loss
There is no single or right way to grieve. Whether you're feeling sadness, guilt, anger, relief, numbness, or emotions that come and go unexpectedly, support is available.
Pet loss hotlines, support groups, and other compassionate resources can provide a safe place to connect and find comfort during this difficult time.
If the pain feels unbearable, please reach out: Call or text 988, or visit 988lifeline.org, for free and confidential support 24/7/365. If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
Caring for the Whole Family
Children and Teens
Use honest, age-appropriate words. Welcome questions and invite memorial activities if they wish.
Surviving Pets
Keep routines familiar and offer calm attention. Contact your veterinarian if appetite or behavior changes persist.
Honor the Bond
Write a letter, gather photographs, plant something, or tell the stories that keep your companion close.
Seeking support is an act of care.
Close to Home
During this difficult time, you don't have to navigate your loss alone. We've gathered a selection of trusted local services that can provide compassionate support and aftercare resources to help you honor your pet and care for yourself.
Long Island | Individual Care
Pet Loss Support Services
Private, compassionate pet-loss counselling with Janet Zimmerman. Ask about availability and fees.
New York | Free Virtual Group
Bideawee Pet Loss Support
A small, welcoming Zoom Group where grieving pet families can share memories and feel understood.
New York City | Free Group
The Animal Medical Center
Twice-monthly support for families in the first three months after a pet's passing. Advance registration is required.
New York State | Phone Support
Cornell Pet Loss Support Hotline
Trained veterinary-student volunteers listen with compassion. Hours vary seasonally; call for current availability.
More ways to connect
Caring support from wherever you are. Whether you're looking for virtual support groups, online communities, educational resources, or grief counseling, these trusted organizations can provide comfort and guidance whenever you need it.
Virtual Groups & Coaching
Lap of Love Pet Loss Support
Complimentary weekly groups, focused gatherings, courses, and private grief coaching.
Free Live Online Chat
Association for Pet Loss & Bereavement
A safe online space to share, listen, or simply be present with others who understand.
Phone & Voicemail
Tuffs Pet Loss Support Hotline
A confidential place to speak with a compassionate listener. Monday to Thursday 6-9pm Eastern.
Free Virtual Gathering
Michigan State University
Support for remembrance and connection, generally on the second and fourth Thursday.